Zoom Recovery Coaching
DISCLAIMER: We do not offer trauma based services such as EMDR, Brainspotting or Tapping. If you have been deeply traumatized and need deeper work, please seek a certified trauma therapist, preferably in your community.
Utilizing a number of resources, The Silent Addiction primarily applies The F.E.E.L. Method for helping overcome dependence upon the individual's sexual coping and escape mechanisms. F.E.E.L. stands for: Feel the Pain, Evaluate the Pain, Emerge from the Pain, Let it Go. Click the above link to find out more!
RESOURCES
The various books we use a/o recommend in coaching, depending on the need are:
INNER CHILD RECOVERY PROCESS
Going Deeper by Eddie Capparucci
Going Deeper Workbook by Eddie Capparucci
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Faithful and True, Mark Laaser
Live Pure and Free, Dave Howe (90 Day Devotional - highly recommended)
Unwanted, Jay Stringer
Help Her Heal - Carol Sheets
Shattered Vows, Debra Laaser
The Sacred Marriage, Gary Thomas
Out of the Doghouse for Christian Men, Rob Weiss and Marnie Feree
(all are linked to Amazon for easy ordering)
The various books we use a/o recommend in coaching, depending on the need are:
INNER CHILD RECOVERY PROCESS
Going Deeper by Eddie Capparucci
Going Deeper Workbook by Eddie Capparucci
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Faithful and True, Mark Laaser
Live Pure and Free, Dave Howe (90 Day Devotional - highly recommended)
Unwanted, Jay Stringer
Help Her Heal - Carol Sheets
Shattered Vows, Debra Laaser
The Sacred Marriage, Gary Thomas
Out of the Doghouse for Christian Men, Rob Weiss and Marnie Feree
(all are linked to Amazon for easy ordering)
TESTING
At The Silent Addiction, we MANDATE a Temperament Analysis Test for any individual receiving coaching as well as for any betrayed spouse who will be a part of the coaching session at sometime. The cost for the testing can be paid for below or can also be paid over whatever cash transfer app you choose. The testing is completed online. Reese is a Certified Temperament Counselor.
SUPPORT NETWORK
Mandated for the addict and highly suggested for the betrayed spouse, you must also have or be in the middle of setting up a support network of people who will EFFECTIVELY hold you accountable. The Law of Three. A person who can mentor you. A person that you can mentor. A peer that holds you accountable but also offers down time and fun. This can be made up of closer personal friends/family members, mentors or leaders but we request never your spouse at this time. She must heal. Hard questions must be asked. An initial support network should be full of at least one person who contacts you daily for 30 days to see how you are doing and hold you accountable for your behaviors. The Silent Addiction can help those in your support network learn effectively how to hold you accountable in love. Remember "the opposite of addiction is not sobriety, the opposite of addiction is connection."
BE BROKEN
The Silent Addiction is also connected with Be Broken, a national men's ministry working with men and their sex addictions. Through their subsidiary, Gateway to Freedom, weekend intensives are offered roughly 10 times a year in Orlando, FL, St. Simon's Island, GA and Schulenberg, TX. We highly recommend that anyone struggling with compulsive unhealthy sexual behaviors seeking help for the first time, or the first time in a long time, attend one of these all inclusive intensives that they offer during the year. For a very reasonable price, you have lodging, food, training, personal counseling and all resource materials. The Silent Addiction offers support in the way of counseling at a number of these intensives as well as taking part in their mentoring and aftercare ministries.
At The Silent Addiction, we MANDATE a Temperament Analysis Test for any individual receiving coaching as well as for any betrayed spouse who will be a part of the coaching session at sometime. The cost for the testing can be paid for below or can also be paid over whatever cash transfer app you choose. The testing is completed online. Reese is a Certified Temperament Counselor.
SUPPORT NETWORK
Mandated for the addict and highly suggested for the betrayed spouse, you must also have or be in the middle of setting up a support network of people who will EFFECTIVELY hold you accountable. The Law of Three. A person who can mentor you. A person that you can mentor. A peer that holds you accountable but also offers down time and fun. This can be made up of closer personal friends/family members, mentors or leaders but we request never your spouse at this time. She must heal. Hard questions must be asked. An initial support network should be full of at least one person who contacts you daily for 30 days to see how you are doing and hold you accountable for your behaviors. The Silent Addiction can help those in your support network learn effectively how to hold you accountable in love. Remember "the opposite of addiction is not sobriety, the opposite of addiction is connection."
BE BROKEN
The Silent Addiction is also connected with Be Broken, a national men's ministry working with men and their sex addictions. Through their subsidiary, Gateway to Freedom, weekend intensives are offered roughly 10 times a year in Orlando, FL, St. Simon's Island, GA and Schulenberg, TX. We highly recommend that anyone struggling with compulsive unhealthy sexual behaviors seeking help for the first time, or the first time in a long time, attend one of these all inclusive intensives that they offer during the year. For a very reasonable price, you have lodging, food, training, personal counseling and all resource materials. The Silent Addiction offers support in the way of counseling at a number of these intensives as well as taking part in their mentoring and aftercare ministries.
PAYMENT FOR SERVICES
The price for each 50-minute coaching session (therapeutic hour) is $85.00 and the mandated Temperament Analysis cost's $35.00 if you are coming on board for long term coaching. Payment for sessions will be given before or immediately following the coaching session if using a mobile app. We accept Venmo, Zelle and Cash App and of course below through Square. If paying via credit or debit card, such information will be requested at the time you fill out policies and procedures paperwork. Payment for testing will precede testing and will be completed prior to the first coaching session.
We do not accept insurance.
The price for each 50-minute coaching session (therapeutic hour) is $85.00 and the mandated Temperament Analysis cost's $35.00 if you are coming on board for long term coaching. Payment for sessions will be given before or immediately following the coaching session if using a mobile app. We accept Venmo, Zelle and Cash App and of course below through Square. If paying via credit or debit card, such information will be requested at the time you fill out policies and procedures paperwork. Payment for testing will precede testing and will be completed prior to the first coaching session.
We do not accept insurance.
